confounded

How do girls get guys so easily? I'm not being desperate or anything *COUGH COUGH*, but merely being curious. Cuz you know there are some people who date like 5 people in month or something? Crazyyy... and the weird thing is, they're not even  gorgeous or anything. Not that they're ugly, but they're just average-looking. Maybe it's their personality or something. Anyways, I just don't get it.